Friendship

Though i usually feel 99% of the friendship quotes are to woo the secret crush ;-)..Found this somewhere in Orkut recently...nice one..

Friends should be like zeros yes, when u adds they are same, when u subtract they are same, when u try to divide they become infinity.

At age 3 we started our studies with tears in eyes and at 22 we will finish our studies with tears in heart. The 1st tear is simply a water due to missing our parents and the 2nd one will be blood due to the missing of our friends

A really close friendship doesn’t just happen it travels a long way through misunderstanding stupid fights hesitation consoling words shoulders to cry and more that takes time to build the kind of trust and respect which makes friendship a lasting on....

One of the Best Scenes I have ever seen!

The Reality


People say Congress is great or NDA was better or Third front is best. There are infinite debates goining on everywhere to resolve who is better. NDA or UPA or Third Front or XYZ party. But if we have careful look at the reality there are lot major issues which are ignored by both the parties from last 50 years

1. Education

Can you ever think of joining your kids in a government school in todays competition? If that is the case, just imagine the fate of the people who cannot afford costly education. What will be their future in coming years?

2. Food

42 percent of Indian Population is below poverty line. That means in every 10 people around you, 4 are struggling to even survive. What makes India Shining?

3. Corruption

Take an example of a young intellectual who wants to start a small business, To start his company, he should also start the corruption spree right from giving bribe to the local police wala, Revenue Department, VAT agencies, Service Tax agencies etc etc and the list goes on.

4. Unemployment

How many of youngsters who have graduated are getting decent jobs such that they can buy a home for themselves and lead a happy life? As population is increasing day by day, imagine the fate of the next generation if no proper opportunities are created

5. Infrastructure

We worry about the incomplete flyovers and traffic, people in rural areas don't even have proper drainage facilities and toilets.

The list of problems go on and on.

The moral of the story is the great Gandhi Congress or UPA, BJP or NDA, the third, fourth, fifth fronts spent 80 percent of their power to feed their kith and kin and increase their bank balances. The poor man is becoming poorer as he cannot afford corruption and rich is getting richer as he can afford corruption.

When a small government clerk job needs candidates of no criminal record, how come Members of Parliament or Legislative Assembly are exempted? Isn't it just because the law makers themselves are criminals?

Now the only thing which can rescue us are the two most underrated rights given by constitution.

1. Right to Vote

2. Freedom of Speech

Being educated, it becomes our responsibility to realize the facts, exercise our vote judiciously and make the uneducated and innocent people who are victims of our political system. Remember Matrix Movie, machines using humans as mere batteries for power. The same is happening here. The current political system forcing the poor and uneducated to remain in their current state, cashing their ignorance and their mere instinct for survival.

Good to see the advent of media and its reach to rural areas, educating the people and reflecting where exactly we are and whom exactly we are electing as our leaders.

I hope this change will become a revolution and hope there comes a day when every Indian has a 3 day meal, works for eight hours, enjoy with family and sleep in his own house.

Friends, I request instead of voting for a better idiot, Either void your vote or vote for a party with clean record.

If you are planning to void your vote

You can refer to this link for more info

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/49-O

Since the ballot paper / Electronic voting machine (EVM) contains only the list of candidates, a voter cannot record his vote under Section 49-O directly. He must inform the presiding officer at the election booth. This violates the secrecy of the ballot. However, with paper ballot a different method is used to "waste" ones vote, which is stamping on multiple candidates. In fact this was the standard method of giving null votes without violating secrecy before the advent of the EVM.

At present, in an election, a winner will be declared irrespective of the number of 'non-votes'. However, a note of every 'non-vote' will be made with the Election Officer, and the total number of non-voters will, presumably, be available under the Right to Information Act.

Though this article is not implemented, the number of non votes i.e. void votes will be registered and published. This count can force the SC or government n future to implement 49-O.

Not participating in Voting process is like watching your own house burning though you have a bucket of water in your hand and a cell phone to call fire station.

It's time for all of us to rush and save our house before the fire catches up and burns us away!!!

Conscience Constitution

As life moves on and the complexity of life increases.. One starts finding the need for a box of principles he must stand on in short called Conscience Constitution. As every administration needs a rule book based on which decisions needs to be made, human life planning and administration also needs a constitution to move the life in right direction. If not, life will be a small boat travelling in an ocean without any compass. Without a compass like conscience constitution, human life will be directionless boat in an ocean, which moves ahead not based upon its own direction but under the influences of temporary satisfactions and emotional imbalances just like sea winds and tornados.

Why Conscience Constitution?

· It gives life a direction

· It directs our life in our own defined direction

· It makes life’s decision making process simple and effective.

· It provides you better control over your life

· It shields you from societal malfunctions like Mass Hysteria, Visionless influences and many more.

Real Life Scenarios

Have you ever in life confused on how to react to a specific situation and feared taking a wrong decision. For example, from childhood if you are interested in being a doctor and there comes and a point where you need to take Maths or Biology in after your class 12, People start influencing you. They try to scare that becoming a doctor needs a lot of hard work, you need to get very promising rank in the entrance examination, you need to face very high competition, it’s very unlikely u succeed, better take Engineering stream. Here comes the dilemma. Should I choose what I really want and take responsibility later for my decision or should I move on with the crowd choosing a safer option.

Person 1 (Who finds the above example very easy to solve)

The person who finds above example not that complex to handle must be having three principles already mentioned in his Conscience Constitution.

· Follow your heart.

· Don’t get influenced by others

· You have enough strength and confidence to take care of your family even in adverse conditions.

Person 2 (Who feels he is in dilemma in this situation)

This person too has a conscience constitution but he finds the points in it confliction each other

· Follow your heart

· Don’t be over confident about your skills

· Family is your first priority

· You can’t do which you don’t like

This person will be in serious dilemma and struggles to make decision and starts finding answers from others. Most likely he ends up taking the decision of the last person he has consulted before making the final decision.

Person 3 (Who has no concept of Conscience Constitution)

This person either has too many points or no points in his CC which stops him from thinking when he makes decision. These kind of persons just do off things randomly and struggle later to find excuses for their acts and finally end up with a compromising life.

Formulating Conscience Constitution

Everyone has basic CC which has the basic ethics and morals which were taught to us in our childhood. We never think of stabbing anyone or hitting anyone without any reason. We say sorry when we do mistakes. These kind of basic things will always be in the initial pages of our CC. As life in childhood, is pretty simple and is always under constant support of parents, we don’t need much of our CC other than these basics. As life moves on and things get complicated, there comes the need to add more points to our CC to make future decision making effective and less error prone.

So now how to add new points to our CC. Our mind has two power centers for decision making. One is our Mind and the other is Heart. A person is called too practical if he uses his Mind most of the times and called too emotional if he uses his Heart instead. When to use what is purely dependent upon ones social upbringing and one needs to consider these when he adds points to his CC.

The first point by default to be added always is “Never Violate CC at any cost”. If this is not in place, there is no point in having a CC.

To be Continued…