Thursday, May 28, 2009
Though i usually feel 99% of the friendship quotes are to woo the secret crush ;-)..Found this somewhere in Orkut recently...nice one..
Friends should be like zeros yes, when u adds they are same, when u subtract they are same, when u try to divide they become infinity.
At age 3 we started our studies with tears in eyes and at 22 we will finish our studies with tears in heart. The 1st tear is simply a water due to missing our parents and the 2nd one will be blood due to the missing of our friends
A really close friendship doesn’t just happen it travels a long way through misunderstanding stupid fights hesitation consoling words shoulders to cry and more that takes time to build the kind of trust and respect which makes friendship a lasting on....
Saturday, April 11, 2009
Wednesday, April 01, 2009
People say Congress is great or NDA was better or Third front is best. There are infinite debates goining on everywhere to resolve who is better. NDA or UPA or Third Front or XYZ party. But if we have careful look at the reality there are lot major issues which are ignored by both the parties from last 50 years
Can you ever think of joining your kids in a government school in todays competition? If that is the case, just imagine the fate of the people who cannot afford costly education. What will be their future in coming years?
If you are planning to void your vote
Since the ballot paper / Electronic voting machine (EVM) contains only the list of candidates, a voter cannot record his vote under Section 49-O directly. He must inform the presiding officer at the election booth. This violates the secrecy of the ballot. However, with paper ballot a different method is used to "waste" ones vote, which is stamping on multiple candidates. In fact this was the standard method of giving null votes without violating secrecy before the advent of the EVM.
At present, in an election, a winner will be declared irrespective of the number of 'non-votes'. However, a note of every 'non-vote' will be made with the Election Officer, and the total number of non-voters will, presumably, be available under the Right to Information Act.
It's time for all of us to rush and save our house before the fire catches up and burns us away!!!
Thursday, February 12, 2009
As life moves on and the complexity of life increases.. One starts finding the need for a box of principles he must stand on in short called Conscience Constitution. As every administration needs a rule book based on which decisions needs to be made, human life planning and administration also needs a constitution to move the life in right direction. If not, life will be a small boat travelling in an ocean without any compass. Without a compass like conscience constitution, human life will be directionless boat in an ocean, which moves ahead not based upon its own direction but under the influences of temporary satisfactions and emotional imbalances just like sea winds and tornados.
Why Conscience Constitution?
· It gives life a direction
· It directs our life in our own defined direction
· It makes life’s decision making process simple and effective.
· It provides you better control over your life
· It shields you from societal malfunctions like Mass Hysteria, Visionless influences and many more.
Real Life Scenarios
Have you ever in life confused on how to react to a specific situation and feared taking a wrong decision. For example, from childhood if you are interested in being a doctor and there comes and a point where you need to take Maths or Biology in after your class 12, People start influencing you. They try to scare that becoming a doctor needs a lot of hard work, you need to get very promising rank in the entrance examination, you need to face very high competition, it’s very unlikely u succeed, better take Engineering stream. Here comes the dilemma. Should I choose what I really want and take responsibility later for my decision or should I move on with the crowd choosing a safer option.
Person 1 (Who finds the above example very easy to solve)
The person who finds above example not that complex to handle must be having three principles already mentioned in his Conscience Constitution.
· Follow your heart.
· Don’t get influenced by others
· You have enough strength and confidence to take care of your family even in adverse conditions.
Person 2 (Who feels he is in dilemma in this situation)
This person too has a conscience constitution but he finds the points in it confliction each other
· Follow your heart
· Don’t be over confident about your skills
· Family is your first priority
· You can’t do which you don’t like
This person will be in serious dilemma and struggles to make decision and starts finding answers from others. Most likely he ends up taking the decision of the last person he has consulted before making the final decision.
Person 3 (Who has no concept of Conscience Constitution)
This person either has too many points or no points in his CC which stops him from thinking when he makes decision. These kind of persons just do off things randomly and struggle later to find excuses for their acts and finally end up with a compromising life.
Formulating Conscience Constitution
Everyone has basic CC which has the basic ethics and morals which were taught to us in our childhood. We never think of stabbing anyone or hitting anyone without any reason. We say sorry when we do mistakes. These kind of basic things will always be in the initial pages of our CC. As life in childhood, is pretty simple and is always under constant support of parents, we don’t need much of our CC other than these basics. As life moves on and things get complicated, there comes the need to add more points to our CC to make future decision making effective and less error prone.
So now how to add new points to our CC. Our mind has two power centers for decision making. One is our Mind and the other is Heart. A person is called too practical if he uses his Mind most of the times and called too emotional if he uses his Heart instead. When to use what is purely dependent upon ones social upbringing and one needs to consider these when he adds points to his CC.
The first point by default to be added always is “Never Violate CC at any cost”. If this is not in place, there is no point in having a CC.
To be Continued…